There are endless types of vibrators, from those that mimic masturbation to vibrators to use with a partner to those that vibrate along to music. The key to choosing your vibrator is what kind of stimulation you enjoy and want.
The five main types are internal, external, combo, anal, and penis-focused. What you like may determine the shape and style — and the keyword to look for when shopping!
How do you like being stimulated?
Internal: inside the vagina for those who enjoy penetration and G-spot stimulation. Internal vibrators are often — but not always — long cylinders, ideal for hitting the G-spot or mimicking a penis, if that’s your goal. there is also a huge variety of sizes Internal vibrators can vary anywhere from one- to five-fingers size.
External: around the clitoris and labia, for those who either prefer no penetration or who need clitoral stimulation during penetration, either with or without a partner. The look of external vibrators can vary, but they’re often not cylindrical to cover more surface area. External vibrators can range from three inch bullets to large magic wands.
Combo: both inside and outside the vagina, often called rabbit vibrators because of their shape. Combo vibrators look like dildos with an added arm to hit both the G-spot and clitoris at the same time.
Anal: inside or outside the anus, these vibrators are different from internal vibrators because they have a base so they don’t get lost or stuck. Anal vibrators tend to be a bit smaller or have multiple sizes as the anus takes a bit longer — and more lubricant — to open up.
Penis-focused: around and on the shaft of the penis vibrating cock rings are excellent for those with a penis who struggle with arousal or who want to add to the stimulation they feel during sex or masturbation. Penis-focused vibrators often stretch to accommodate different shaft sizes.
Next you need to decide what kind of vibration, and therefore motor, you’d like. Ask yourself the following questions:
Do you want broad or targeted vibration? If you enjoy being stimulated across your vulva, you might enjoy broader vibrations with toys that have a bigger surface area. If you enjoy only certain parts stimulated, you may enjoy a more targeted vibrator with a smaller surface area.
Patterns or non-stop vibrations? If you enjoy constant stimulation, you’ll want a motor that runs consistently, which is luckily most vibrators. If you prefer a certain pattern, such as short pulses or a pattern of pauses, you’ll want a vibrator that offers settings,
Do you want the element of vibrating and thrusting? There are some that stimulate penetrative sex.
How about one motor or multiple motors? If you’re just starting out, a single motor will do the trick as you discover what exactly you like in your vibrator. Smaller and one-type vibrators often have single motors. Combo vibrators, such as the rabbit, have two motors that work independently, giving you control over the amount of stimulation you receive internally and externally.
Stick with body-safe material — if it feels like Jell-O, stay away! Whether this is your first vibrator or your hundredth, always make sure you’re buying a toy that uses body-safe materials. Materials is one area where expertise and experience doesn’t discriminate — whether buying for you or a friend, get the best. The hands-down best vibrator material? Silicone. It’s nonporous, easy to clean, super soft, and all-around body safe. Important note about silicone toys: Make sure to only use water-based lube on them as silicone bonds with silicone and will turn your toys into goop.
For those looking to spend less money, there’s another body-safe material called ABS plastic that’s also nonporous, but not as soft as silicone. Certain metals such as silver and gold, and glass are also safe, but these products tend to be more expensive. The
No. 1 rule when it comes to material is to avoid jelly-like vibrators at all costs. They’re porous and will hold bacteria, making them unsafe for the genitals.
In the end, finding the perfect vibrator for you is a journey and it doesn’t have to be one-stop. Starting with a cheaper vibrator provides lots of options to find what you love and then invest in a more suited-to-you toy. Better yet, visit Variety Adult Boutique and test out a few vibrators on your hand to get a feel for the sensation.
Beginners should start out by asking about price, size, and versatility. If you can’t get to the store, you can always give them a call and talk with a sales associate who can help you find exactly what you need. Whatever choice you end up making, remember to spend time learning your new toy and your own body. May you be filled with pleasure!
